| Anal sex
Anal Sex is stimulation of the anus
during sexual activity. It can be done in several
different ways: manually, orally or by anal intercourse.
Anal sex can be the primary form of sexual activity or
it can accompany other types of stimulation. For
instance, couples sometimes include manual stimulation
of the anus (either lightly rubbing the rim or inserting
a finger into the anus) during vaginal intercourse.
Others use the tongue in a similar fashion for oral
stimulation. Anal intercourse is the insertion of a
man's penis into his partner's rectum. Although anal sex
is often thought of as a strictly homosexual activity,
many heterosexual couples enjoy it too.
Anal penetration can be pleasurable, but it can also be
a source of physical discomfort. The muscle on the
outside of the rectum, called the anal sphincter,
ordinarily tightens if stimulated, which means that
attempts at insertion of the penis, or even a finger,
may be uncomfortable even if done slowly and gently. If
penetration into the anus is forced, injury is possible.
It is helpful to use a lubricant liberally and to relax
and gradually dilate the sphincter by gentle manual
stimulation before attempting penetration.
Some people clear the rectum with a small disposable
enema before anal intercourse. Because the rectum
contains infection causing bacteria, anything (fingers,
objects, penis) that has had contact with the anus
should not subsequently be in contact with the vagina or
mouth until it has been thoroughly washed.
Some people have strong negative attitudes toward anal
sex, whether it takes place between homosexual or
heterosexual couples. They may think of it as being
unclean, unnatural, perverted, disgusting, or simply
unappealing. It is sometimes regarded as the ultimate in
depravity and has regularly been condemned by religious
and secular authorities. Historically, religious
objections originate from the fact that a woman cannot
possibly get pregnant through anal sex, as some
religions only approved of sexual intercourse for the
purpose of reproduction.
Anal sex is subject to legal restrictions in some
states, even between married couples. In general these
statutes refer to anal sex acts as "crimes against
nature", going back to the view that heterosexual
intercourse, with its reproductive potential, is the
only natural, healthy, non-sinful way of having sexual
relations. These laws are strongly biased toward the
prosecution of homosexuals because penetrative anal sex
is far more common among gay men than it is among
heterosexual couples.
Despite religious and legal prohibitions to anal sex,
many people, regardless of their sexual orientation,
have engaged in anal sex and found it pleasurable. They
regard it as a legitimate form of sexual expression and
as one of the fulfilling ways in which people can
express their desire and affection for each other. It is
up to each couple to decide what is acceptable and
enjoyable for them. If a couple's attitudes or values
make anal sex unacceptable, or if they do not enjoy it,
they should feel no pressure to engage in it.
It is important to note that HIV, the virus causing
AIDS, can be transmitted through anal sex, especially
anal intercourse. In fact, the risk of HIV transmission
is greater than it is in vaginal intercourse because the
lining of the rectum tears more easily than the vagina
does. The resulting skin breaks and bleeding increase
the possibility of the transmission of bodily fluids
containing the virus that causes AIDS. For those who
choose to engage in either vaginal or anal penetrative
sexual acts, using latex condoms is the best means of
reducing the likelihood of HIV transmission. |